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Sebastian's 10 Day Hospital Visit

Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008

On Friday, December 12, Sebastian seemed perfectly fine. He complained about both his feet falling asleep in the morning when he woke up, which seemed like no big deal at the time. The following morning at hockey practice, Sebastian complained about his shins hurting and was falling down on the ice a lot (which also seemed like no big deal at the time — he did the same thing when his glasses were hurting his head during a previous hockey practice). Later that same day at the mall, Sebastian was stumbling and scuffing his feet on the floor, but it seemed like no big deal at the time because he was wearing brand new (bulky) winter boots. On Sunday morning, however, Sebastian was walking very awkwardly in our apartment in sock feet, and kept falling down. He was bending forward at his hips and his legs were turning out to the side when he took steps. The big alarm came when my wife pinched his back really hard to test his nerves and he didn't feel a thing. At that point, we headed to the emergency room. After about 7 hours and an MRI later, Sebastian was diagnosed with transverse myelitis.

Transverse myelitis is a condition affecting the spine which in turn affects other parts of the body. "Myelitis" refers to a swelling in the spine, and "transverse" tells you that the swelling goes across the width of the spine, affecting a cross section of both the left and right sides. Due to the portions of the spine affected in Sebastian's case, this caused the tingling in the feet, lack of balance, and numbness in the back. Unfortunately, when the inflammation of the spinal cord is reduced, the affected areas do not automatically return to their original functionality. The scariest part of transverse myelitis is that the recovery rate is split about evenly into thirds:

About one-third of people affected with transverse myelitis experience good or full recovery from their symptoms . . . Another one-third show only fair recovery and are left with significant deficits such as spastic gait, sensory dysfunction, and prominent urinary urgency or incontinence. The remaining one-third show no recovery at all

Doctors told us that this would require a hospital stay over a period of weeks. Our most favorable estimate had us leaving right after Christmas.

Sebastian was placed in the PICU and started daily steroid treatments that would assist in reducing the inflammation in his spinal cord. The following day, he was moved to the Step Down Unit, and the day after that (Tuesday) he was moved into a semi-private pediatric room. By the time he reached his semi-private room, Sebastian had two MRIs, a spinal tap, two IV attempts, an EEG, and the standard casual poking and prodding by a dozen medical professionals.

On Tuesday, Sebastian had discomfort in his back, most likely caused by laying in bed for so long. When asked to move his legs, at times he could move his left leg to the side about half an inch, and sometimes not at all. His right leg showed more progress, moving about an inch off the bed. He was also completely unable to lift his head or back off of the bed.

By Thursday, the physical therapist and occupational therapist were able to get him out of bed and have him walk about 60 feet to the nurses' station and back to his bed. I think this accomplishment gave Sebastian the self-confidence and motivation to start working toward recovery, because the next morning he wanted to walk past the nurses' station. And on Friday, he was discharged from the pediatric ward and admitted to the rehabilitation center on a different floor.

Though the move to the rehab unit was a blessing for us, it was not that great a move for Sebastian. He went from a floor filled with kids, nurses who deal with kids all day, video games, and lots of kids activities. He moved to a floor filled with almost entirely elderly people and nurses who were used to dealing with mostly old people. The upside is that we moved to a brightly lit hallway, a fully private room, and a floor filled with people who weren't sick, but were getting stronger. By the time Sebastian reached the rehab unit, he was moving around (too quickly) with the assistance of his walker. He was really enjoying the freedom of being mobile.

Today, December 23, Sebastian came home after 10 days in the hospital! Here is footage of him leaving the hospital and of him arriving home:

As you can see, he is able to walk independently without any real help. You will see the tan gait belt around his waist, which basically just gives him three handles that we can grab if he slips or falls. They are very nice for when he is walking over slippery surfaces.

Though Sebastian has recovered delightfully well, he does still have plenty of work ahead of himself. His "core" muscles are very weak, which causes him to have trouble balancing. Thus, he will continue to do exercises each day and see a physical therapist on a regular basis to strengthen these important muscles. After just a couple days of PT, we can see a marked improvement: He couldn't stand back up from a squatting position on Saturday, but today he can do a few squat/stands in a row.

We have to thank all the people who have prayed for Sebastian over the past 10 days. The amount of prayer he has received is overwhelming; I know he ended up on at least three church's prayer lists and we have heard from dozens of friends and acquaintances who have prayed. Please keep praying for Sebastian's continued recovery and strength! Sebastian is looking forward to getting back to school after the winter break and is hoping to get back out on the ice for hockey as soon as possible!

Sebastian Racks Up the Soccer Goals in 2008

Thursday, November 27th, 2008

Sebastian put a lot of offensive effort into his second year of soccer. He didn't get any goals his first year, but his coach could tell that this year would be his breakout year. He was right!

Sebastian scored many goals this year and really helped his team out. During one game against his best friend's team, Sebastian scored both goals and then finished the game with some amazing saves as goalie to keep the other team shut out!

Here are some of the highlight goals from this year:

And now that soccer is done, it's on to hockey!

Holidays and Traffic Signs

Tuesday, November 11th, 2008

Since today is Veterans' Day, Sebastian has the day off of school. Last night as we were discussing plans for today, Sebastian overheard us discussing the vacation day. That's when he asked the classic question:

"Why do we have school off for Veterinarians' Day?"

So we had a good laugh, explained to Sebastian about Veterans' Day, and talked about adding a day just for Veterinarians.

Later that night on a separate car trip, we passed a Bump road sign near some construction. This must have reminded Sebastian of an instance a month before where we saw an oddly-labeled sign that cracked my wife and I up for quite a while. So Sebastian asked:

"Dad, why did you think it was so funny that the sign said, 'Speed Hump' instead of 'Speed Bump'?"

Instead of a straightforward explanation, this one just ended with, "I'll explain that to you later." Little does he know that later either means "When you're much older" or "Never".

43 More Things — 2008 Edition

Tuesday, January 1st, 2008

2008 has reared its ugly head, and left me with not even a handful of completed goals:

  • 3 goals (7%) were completed successfully.
  • 9 goals (21%) were abandoned.
  • 31 goals (72%) will be carried over for 2008.

What goals have I chosen for 2008? 31 goals have been carried over, 12 new goals have been added, and 1 goal from 2006 has returned:

  1. Accomplish more goals this year than last year
  2. attend a local government meeting
  3. Be a better blogger
  4. be an audience member for a TV show taping*
  5. Be part of a flash mob
  6. build an igloo
  7. clean up my house and keep it clean
  8. Do the Discovery Health National Body Challenge
  9. drink more water
  10. eat healthier
  11. eat with my hands
  12. exercise regularly
  13. fly a kite
  14. Get better at chess*
  15. Give blood
  16. go camping
  17. have a 3 month emergency fund
  18. have family devotions
  19. Help my child finish the Hooked on Math program*
  20. Help my mother start her home business
  21. Join a professional organization*
  22. Learn how to remember peoples' names
  23. Learn Spanish
  24. learn to do crosswords*
  25. learn to ice skate*
  26. Learn to juggle*
  27. lose weight
  28. make a time capsule
  29. Make family silhouettes*
  30. open the yellow pages, pick the seventh restaurant, and eat the seventh entree and dessert on the menu
  31. Read 23 books in one year
  32. Reduce debt.
  33. Send a message in a bottle
  34. Send a postcard to Postsecret
  35. sleep in a hammock
  36. spend ten minutes holding the door for people
  37. stick to a budget
  38. stop being late
  39. take 43 photos of 43 places within 43 minutes of where I live
  40. take a family vacation
  41. Take the Mensa test.*
  42. Volunteer
  43. Write a will*

* A new goal for 2008.
A "new" goal for 2008 added in October 2007 and due by October 2008.
A renewed goal from before 2007.

You can also view my current list and past accomplished goals at 43 Things or on my own 43 Things page here.

My top two "cheered" goals by other 43 Things users each have 10 cheers, twice as many as the next highest cheered goal. They are:

  • 10 cheers – build an igloo
  • 10 cheers – attend a local government meeting

So, I should probably put a little extra effort into getting these completed this year.

Grade School Fight Club

Monday, November 12th, 2007

Grade School Fight Club

As with any successful series of movies, Baby Fight Club has spawned a spin-off: Grade School Fight Club.

Though Sebastian would have us believe that this bloody shirt was simply the product of a bloody nose, I think I've uncovered the beginnings of Grade School Fight Club.

These clubs have started sprouting up in the deepest, darkest shadows of elementary school playgrounds around the country. Under the monkey bars, by the water fountain, and in the parking lot at 3:00 — hoards of grade schoolers gather to join in this newest trend. So far, they must abide by only two rules:

  1. The first rule of Grade School Fight Club is: There is no Grade School Fight Club.
  2. The second rule of Grade School Fight Club is: If you tell anyone, we won't be your friend any more.

Please let us know if you uncover any additional information about Grade School Fight Club. We're doing all we can to keep it under control.

I Will Interview Sebastian or Pay the Price!

Monday, October 22nd, 2007

I am shifting my list of 43 Things from a list of annual goals to a list of lifetime goals. Thus, I have dropped a couple goals and picked up a couple goals, and I plan on doing further maintenance in the future.

One of my 43 Things that I have kept is to interview my son Sebastian on video every year. I have thought this was a great idea and I wanted to do it before he started kindergarten. This year I added the goal so I could do it during the summer between kindergarten and first grade, but it still hasn't gotten done. So, for some lamebrained reason, I decided to use the Challenge feature of 43 Things to try and motivate myself.

So, my current challenge on 43 Things is to interview my son by December 31, 2007 (70 days from now) or else I will: make three snow angels wearing only a pair of shorts.

I tried to make the penalty something annoying enough that I wouldn't want to do it, but easy enough that I would actually penalize myself if I failed. Hopefully, it won't come down to this and I'll get that interview done in the next month or two!

Of course, since this is a recurring goal, I will mark it as completed each year when I complete the interview and then re-add it to my list when the time comes around again.

Saying the "SH" Word

Thursday, October 18th, 2007

Last year, Sebastian told me that his Kindergarten teacher said "the S-word" to the students and I got nervous, but I had to assume that it wasn't the S-word because I knew his teacher wouldn't slip up like that. (As it turns out, "the S-word" was "stupid".)

This week when I came home from work, Sebastian and I were talking for a while. Suddenly, Sebastian got a serious look on his face and he told me that some older kids were outside our window talking loudly. He told me, "I heard one of the kids say a bad word — the bad "SH-word"."

Again, I was concerned. This wasn't "stupid" because he gave me the dreaded second letter — obviously, he wanted me to know that. Sebastian knows that there are bad words to say and really bad words to say. I prefer that he doesn't yet learn exactly what these really bad words are, but I know that eventually he'll find out. I thought perhaps this was an indication that he had already learned of his first curse word.

I raised my eyebrow and replied, "Oh, really? Sometimes older kids say things they shouldn't say." I paused to get a response.

Then, in a hushed tone, Sebastian whispered, "You know, the 'Shut up' bad word? That's what he said." Sebastian looked closely for my response to this atrocity, so I tried to keep a serious face. I'm sure I couldn't help but smirk after hearing what "the sh-word" was.

You can't protect them from "the sh-word" forever!